However, in researching the 'reality' of the situation in my time with #Genealogy, it's nonetheless turned out that most crucial facts about John that she passed onto my dad at some stage were pretty on the nose.
So it's certainly not as simple as characterising Olive as being allergic to the truth, or having a solely self serving memory.
And, after all, I knew her as an affectionate grandmother, and I don't think my dad ever had any interest in somehow complicating that for me 41/?